February 7, 2019

Again

He ran out of the classroom. Again. He got sent to the office. Again. He growled at his foster mom. Again. He shoved a kid on the playground, broke a girl’s crayons, and ripped up his worksheet. Again. He missed his mom. Again. He got stuck thinking about the word “Adoption,” and how his social […]
Crumpled piece of white paper on wooden surface

He ran out of the classroom. Again. He got sent to the office. Again. He growled at his foster mom. Again. He shoved a kid on the playground, broke a girl’s crayons, and ripped up his worksheet. Again.

He missed his mom. Again. He got stuck thinking about the word “Adoption,” and how his social worker said he wasn’t going to live with his mom. Again. He thought about living in Maine and making bonfires with his grandfather. Again.

The book they read in school was about a family that lived all together. Again. The farmer they were supposed to color in art reminded him of his grandfather who he hasn’t seen in nine months, who promised him they would never be separated. Again. His sister called their foster mom “Mom,” and he loves her, too, but she isn’t their Mom. Again. His head was too busy to complete the assignment and, rather than see red pen etched across it, it felt better just to rip it up. Again.

If you could help get a child through the tough times, please reach out to us today. He needs to be told he is wonderful and worthy and important. Again. And again. And again.

Topics:
Share this
Courtney Edge-Mattos

Read our latest blogs

SEE MORE
December 5, 2025

Supporting Siblings In Care

As we discussed in our last blog, there are many reasons siblings might be separated in foster care.  The significance of separation, however, cannot be overlooked. As adults involved in the foster care world, what can we do to lessen the impact of sibling separation? Avoid It First and foremost, every effort to allow siblings […]
December 5, 2025

Siblings In Care

The majority of children in the foster care system have at least one sibling.  Whether full or half, step-siblings, or raised as siblings, those bonds are incredibly important. Yet, despite the importance of siblinghood and the existence of the Sibling Bill of Rights, all too often siblings are separated while in foster care. Why does […]
1 2 3 62

Comments

Leave a Reply

Sign up for updates!

Get news from JRI delivered directly to your inbox.
CARF accreditation badge
Joint Commission International Quality Approval gold seal.
JRI's intensive residential treatment programs, clinics, and community-based services are accredited by the Joint Commission. JRI's residential schools, group homes, day habilitation and Huntington at Symphony are accredited by CARF.
Instagramfacebooklinkedintiktok

Copyright Ⓒ 2025 JRI. All rights reserved. Privacy Policy. Language Accessibility Notice. Machine Readable File Links.

magnifier